Sister Chelsea Pilkington

Sister Chelsea Pilkington
Sister Chelsea Pilkington

Sunday, December 7, 2014

Golden investigators last week of the Mish!

Area: Santa Cruz
Companion: Sister Raguilab
Monday, December 8, 2014

Hello Fam and Friends.

I cannot even think of where to begin this letter, but another great week has come and gone. Unfortunately between some random sicknesses we were not able to work as much in our area as possible, but many blessings still came with the lessons and hours we were able to teach. 

So at the beginning of the week Sister Raguilab and I decided to go super super hard. Monday afternoon before going out to work I had a little break down realizing my mission really is going to end. I read some scriptures to gather myself and then we went out and talked to over sixty people that evening alone from six to eight p.m. The rest of the week our energy continued, every minute we proselyted this week (which was not many), we talked and talked to people. One evening we met Alfie Almuena. He was our 104th contact this week, and was also our GOLDEN contact.

Alfie Almuena is 18 years old, he looks like he is about 14 because he suffers from really bad asthma. When we contacted him Tuesday night, he told us he really wanted us to come teach him and his cousins. He had been to church before in the past, but nobody reached out to him, he just wanted to be taught by the missionaries but was too shy to ask, so he stopped coming. We were able to teach his family at our return appointment with him and had an awesome lesson. It turns out brother Alfie's mom left him when he was a baby, and a few years ago his dad went missing at sea, (he's a fisherman). So Alfie was left by himself. Luckily, his aunt and uncle took him in as a child and that is where he lives now. His grandma turns out to be a member baptized in Bataan back in the  80's (we were also able to share with her). Alfie brought his three cousins to church on Sunday, he was so early to church he beat us there! Something I love about Alfie is his confidence and passion. It was fast and testimony meeting, and Alfie caught on pretty fast that anyone who wanted to go up could to bear their testimony. I went up since it was my last fast sunday on the mission, and when I went to sit down I was surprised to see Alfie stand up, walk past me and straight up to the stand! I was worried at first that he wouldn't know what to say, but wow were we all blown away. Alfie shared his story about his family, how he was completely lost and knew no where else to turn but to his Father in Heaven at times when he feels so alone. He said he has a desire to be baptized and feels that this church is where he should be. His Spirit was incredible, many members reached out to him that afternoon and their jaws were dropped open when they found out we had only taught him one lesson. Talk about a prepared soul. He's amazing. 

I'm still absolutely in LOVE with the Pajomayo family. The Spirit just hits you like a brick wall every time you step foot in their home, it's an incredible feeling. Sister Rodalyn just totally gets the gospel. We were able to share the Plan of Salvation, Word of Wisdom, and Baptism and Confirmation with them this week, all of which went beautifully. Sister Rodalyn has no problems with anything, she has been reading the scriptures, praying (her prayers have been answered), and she even made it to church this Sunday with brother and baby! Baby Sean Adams had his blessing yesterday and it was beautiful, sister shed a few tears. Their family just looked so perfect sitting on one bench together in the Sacrament Hall. I just see them all dressed in white going inside the temple. Sister is still set on doing all that she can in order to prepare herself mentally, emotionally, and intellectually to be baptized this coming January. :) Yay,.

I am so grateful for the opportunity I have to bear my testimony to the people of the Philippines. How blessed I feel for being assigned to serve here, surrounded by some of the most hospitable, generous, and loving people ever. They crave the word of God, and we feel no shame inviting ourselves into people's houses, nor do they care when we come walk in their front door and ask to share a message with their family without an invite. I know this gospel is true. I will do everything in my power to preach the word to as many people as I come in contact with my last week as a full-time missionary. I know the Book of Mormon is true, everytime I read it, I feel my heart burn with the Spirit, testifying to me that it is the truest book on the face of the earth. Joseph Smith is a prophet, He was called of God to restore Christ's church in the latter days. Thomas S. Monson holds the keys as a living prophet. I love my Saviour, I know that He lives. In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

God Bless, Happy Holidays.
Maligayang Pasko.

Sister Pilkington



Jarom and Rodalyn Pajomayo with baby Sean Adam on his baby blessing day :)
(RM and his wife, our investigator, talked about her last week).
My cute house mates. :)

Sister Hausia!
Love these sisters!!
Tatay Artemio...he is makulit. Only word to appropriately describe him. This is the one that calls me Miss California. S. Rowley's recent convert haha.

Sunday, November 30, 2014

This is the reason I am in Santa Cruz!

Area: Santa Cruz
Companion: Sister Raguilab

Monday, December 1, 2014

Hello Friends & Fam!

The weather cooled off for a couple of days here in the north which was amazing. Not having to use an umbrella and wipe the sweat off my face every two seconds made for a good day. We hit some road bumps this week with our investigators and less actives, but no worries, Heavenly Father is on our side. 

Sunday: We had five investigators and six less actives at church. I was shocked when I got a shout out in the middle of Sacrament meeting. President Ravana said, "I think of everyone in the room right now, Sister Pilkington is probably the happiest, she gets to spend Christmas with her family" (everyone turns and stares at me, hey everyone). Then, I decided to wear my hair down for the first time in ages, the two little girls behind me decided they wanted to play with my hair. I am not sure what they did but I had all sorts of knots and braids cruising down my back. It was all fun and games until the full-time missionaries were called up to the stand for a musical number and I was running my fingers through my hair trying to look decent haha. We saying "Sa Inyo Aking Diyos, Lumalapit", Or "Nearer My God to Thee". It went pretty well,  acapella baby. We also had the opportunity to teach a combined Elders Quorum/Relief Society class. Our topic was Home and Visiting Teaching. I've never felt more passionate about the topic now that I understand it's importance. We put up on the board the actuals/potentials for stats in our branch. 
ex) Members Active -- Actual 121---Potential 707
      Families Visit Taught --Actual 3--Potential 422
      Families Home Taught--Actual 5--Potential X

We tried our best to inspire them and help them come up with their own solutions to this problem. There are so many members in the Philippines, if only we could get them all to be active, the church might be stronger in numbers here than it is in America! I have a real testimony of fulfilling our duties as members. There was a story we shared about a mother doing her visiting teaching. Being a mother she was extremely busy, but she would go stop by her assigned sisters, take their clothes and iron them for them, bring them cookies, etc. At the end of her month she felt bad and said she couldn't check off that she did her visiting teaching for the month because she hadn't shared a message with them. One of the sisters she visited said she could more than check off that she did her visiting teaching, she was a true friend, with a genuine care and concern. Although she couldn't share a message, she served in more ways than one. Visiting and Home teaching are not about sharing a 15 message once a month and calling it a day, checking off that we did it. But rather about being there for our assigned sisters/families, being a friend to them, and helping to strengthen their testimonies.

Rodalyn and Jerom Pajomayo: Brother Jerom texted us this week saying he would like to refer us to his wife. Turns out brother Jerom is a return missionary, he got home from his mission in 2005 and married Rodalyn who was not yet a member. He continued to be active in the church and prayed the time would come where Rodalyn would be ready to accept the gospel, yet never once did he push her to take discussions, but was rather patiently waiting for her to say she wanted to do so. Sister Rodalyn gave birth to their baby boy Sean Adam three weeks ago. However, he has holes in his heart, so his life is very very fragile right now. It is an emotional time for the two of them right now, and in a way, a miracle at the same time. Sister has been looking for something more to help comfort her at this time, and brother knew exactly what that might be--the gospel. Sister Rowley and I happened to be on exchanges the day that we had an appointment to meet them for the first time. And wow, the lesson was beautiful. I have never taught a more spiritual lesson in my life. We taught about the restoration of the gospel, the restoration of the priesthood power, and the beauty and reality of eternal families. Brother bore an extremely powerful lesson which led all of us to tears. Sister accepted to pray about Joseph Smith, which she told us at our return appt yesterday that she knows he is a true prophet. We taught sister Rodalyn how to pray, then we knelt down and she poured her heart out to her Heavenly Father. We all opened our eyes at the end, full of tears and we embraced each other. She is so strong, she even bore her testimony to us telling us this is her time. Sunday afternoon Sister Raguilab and I followed up with them, she is still going strong, we taught the Plan of Salvation, tied in the Atonement and Temples, and extended a baptismal goal date for January 10, which she accepted. This family is the reason I am here in Santa Cruz. I can just feel it. The moment I met them I loved them so much. I cannot wait to get the email a little over a year from now that they have been sealed in the temple. Sister has been on temple grounds while brother did a session inside a few years ago, and she longs to go back to be sealed to her husband.

The gospel is so true. My heart burns to bear the truth to the people of the Philippines. I will preach until the day that I die. The Plan of Salvation is Real. Our Savior Lives. Happy December--and always, remember the reason for the season.

Mahal,

Sister Pilkington

Monday, November 24, 2014

Tom was baptized in Mandama!


Area: Santa Cruz
Companion: Sister Ragulib
Monday, November 24, 2014

Hello Again. 

"And as you labor to know Him, and to know that he knows you; as you invest your time--and inconvenience--in quiet, unassuming service, you will indeed find that his angels have charge concerning thee and in their hands they shall bear thee up: it may not come quickly, it probably won't come quickly, but there is purpose in the time it takes. Cherish your spiritual burdens, because god will converse with you through them and will use you to do his work IF you carry them well. If sometimes the harder you try, the harder it gets, take heart. So it has been with the best people who have ever lived." -Jeffrey R. Holland.

Santa Cruz has been a beautiful challenge that I am grateful for. I've expected so much from an area because I only have six weeks to work with it. Sister Raguilab have been on our knees praying for His help, and our prayers are being answered, slowly yet surely. We had two investigators and seven less active attend church three weeks ago when I got here. Yesterday, we had eight investigators and eight less actives attend. The Lord is hastening His work, and it is a wonderful sight.

Mary Rose Estacio. We were finding last Saturday and ran into a family that told us about a members mom that just got home from the hospital. They pointed us the direction of her house and told us to go visit her. We took the chance and went over. That is when we met Mary Rose. She is 40 years old, her youngest son, Nolan (21) is a member. Mary Rose got VERY sick the week before, she had a 50/50 chance of surviving..she had 50 mL of blood left in her body. Members from the Santa Cruz Branch donated blood to her which saved her life. Mary Rose has been prepared for the gospel through this simple act of service by the members. We extended a baptismal goal date to her at our first lesson with her, she said yes. She came to church yesterday.

Bing is still doing well. We had a great family home evening with her family on Monday. Although her husband was very shy he joined in. He didn't however come to church yesterday, there is still more work to be done.

If you remember Tom Purgatorio (the 16 year old from Mandama, our golden investigator that reads the BOM daily, is super smart, and best friends with all the youth) well he was baptized last Saturday. Oh Happy Day! Luzviminda, Nora, and her family are all being prepared to be baptized this upcoming Saturday! (The other family from Mandama that sister Lim and I were working with). Such happy news :)

On a funny note, I have been told by all sorts of children and now adults that I look like the Mother Mary saint statue in the Catholic church..haha..some of the little kids start shouting "mama mary!!" when I walk by..one of our branch missionaries made me put a towel around my face to pretend to be her and was dying of joy saying we look like twins..awesome haha. 

Happy week. Happy mission. Not much else is going on. Typical mission life. Enjoying my last few weeks, going all out. :)

Mahal,

Sister Pilkington
Hello Again. 

"And as you labor to know Him, and to know that he knows you; as you invest your time--and inconvenience--in quiet, unassuming service, you will indeed find that his angels have charge concerning thee and in their hands they shall bear thee up: it may not come quickly, it probably won't come quickly, but there is purpose in the time it takes. Cherish your spiritual burdens, because god will converse with you through them and will use you to do his work IF you carry them well. If sometimes the harder you try, the harder it gets, take heart. So it has been with the best people who have ever lived." -Jeffrey R. Holland.

Santa Cruz has been a beautiful challenge that I am grateful for. I've expected so much from an area because I only have six weeks to work with it. Sister Raguilab have been on our knees praying for His help, and our prayers are being answered, slowly yet surely. We had two investigators and seven less active attend church three weeks ago when I got here. Yesterday, we had eight investigators and eight less actives attend. The Lord is hastening His work, and it is a wonderful sight.

Mary Rose Estacio. We were finding last Saturday and ran into a family that told us about a members mom that just got home from the hospital. They pointed us the direction of her house and told us to go visit her. We took the chance and went over. That is when we met Mary Rose. She is 40 years old, her youngest son, Nolan (21) is a member. Mary Rose got VERY sick the week before, she had a 50/50 chance of surviving..she had 50 mL of blood left in her body. Members from the Santa Cruz Branch donated blood to her which saved her life. Mary Rose has been prepared for the gospel through this simple act of service by the members. We extended a baptismal goal date to her at our first lesson with her, she said yes. She came to church yesterday.

Bing is still doing well. We had a great family home evening with her family on Monday. Although her husband was very shy he joined in. He didn't however come to church yesterday, there is still more work to be done.

If you remember Tom Purgatorio (the 16 year old from Mandama, our golden investigator that reads the BOM daily, is super smart, and best friends with all the youth) well he was baptized last Saturday. Oh Happy Day! Luzviminda, Nora, and her family are all being prepared to be baptized this upcoming Saturday! (The other family from Mandama that sister Lim and I were working with). Such happy news :)

On a funny note, I have been told by all sorts of children and now adults that I look like the Mother Mary saint statue in the Catholic church..haha..some of the little kids start shouting "mama mary!!" when I walk by..one of our branch missionaries made me put a towel around my face to pretend to be her and was dying of joy saying we look like twins..awesome haha. 

Happy week. Happy mission. Not much else is going on. Typical mission life. Enjoying my last few weeks, going all out. :)

Mahal,

Sister Pilkington
My pet fish and YES, it's real :)


Love it here…makes me miss Hawaii!


Sister Raguilab and Sister Diosa! (Branch missionary)

Sister Ron! :) *member from Iba branch

Family Home Evening at Bing's house!


Santa Cruz Zone activity on the beach :D

Sister Garrett and Siste Rowley!  Beach Babes!  Not sure when I got so dark.

Tom's Baptism!









Sunday, November 16, 2014

The Lord's Vineyard

Area: Santa Cruz

Companion: Sister Raguilab

Monday, November 17, 2014

Hello Fam.

 

And the days continue to roll on..Santa Cruz is still beautiful, and I still die everytime we watch the sunset at the beach...never gets old. I went on exchanges with my anak, Sister Rowley. Best ever. It all just flowed, I guess that's what happens when you were previous companions for three months. I'm still struggling with the transition from Tagalog to English..I've become a bit dislexic and have bad grammar..example "Home at Love", "Wig Baves" ..yep can't talk. Sister Raguilab and I are still dropping and finding like crazy..trying to get this area turned around before I leave. Got a few more weeks to do so. But with the help of lots of prayers and obedience I know it will happen. We had three investigators and nine less actives attend church yesterday. 

 

One of those investigators is Kate Rivera, she is a part member, her mom and older sister are both members. She has a baptismal goal date for November 29, but we are planning on moving that back. We don't feel like she will be quite ready yet this November, but definitely the first week or two of December she will be good to go.

 

The other two investigators are a couple, Bing Mayonte and her husband. Bing has been an investigator since May I'm pretty sure..she is incredible. She hasn't missed a Sunday in months, she is doing her family history work, reads the Book of Mormon every day..she is practically a member. The only reason she isn't baptized is because she's not married. A few years ago her husband wanted to get married, but she didn't. Now, she wants to get married, but her husband doesn't. Funny how the dice rolls sometimes. However, we were shocked when we saw her husband come to church, as in miracle status. To make things even better, we are having a family home evening at their house later tonight, so it will be an easy way to teach brother for the first time. We are really excited, and hope that the gospel can help brother realize the importance of getting married and then baptized. Fingers crossed. :) Nothing is impossible with the help of the Spirit and Heavenly Father. Win.

 

We successfully created a Branch Mission Plan yesterday with our Branch President, Branch Mission Leader and all six of us missionaries. (there are two Elders assigned here as well.) We pulled up the stats of the branch, ex) 121 members come to church on an average each week, and there are 707 members in the area. So we made all sorts of goals, made lists of families to focus on, recent converts who need callings, etc, so that we can work together as auxillaries to get this branch back into action. We are all super motivated. Last night I printed out all 707 members and high-lighted that baby up. Starting with families that are sealed, members that are endowed that are now inactive. We have a good plan for this week, lots of work to do here but we are excited. We are hoping this will get some good leaders back to the church, and find some loop holes of families with children not yet baptized, etc. 

 

Funny story. Sister Alice Noverra taught Relief Society this week, it was about the importance of prayer, especially in a family setting. She told a story about how the other week she was saying night time prayer with her nephew..As her nephew was praying she opened one eye to look at him (nothing cuter than a little kid saying a prayer, so innocent and just adorable). She was shocked to see her nephew with one eye open as well staring straight back at her. After the prayer she laughingly explained to her sister that her nephew had caught her peeking. Her sister then laughed and told her that her son thought that was how you were supposed to pray, with one eye open and one eye closed. The little boys mom peeked at him so often during prayers, that he thought that was how you were supposed to pray. We were all dying laughing, one because that is just the cutest thing ever, and two because kids really do pick up on EVERYTHING. Just shows the importance of being a good example as a parent.

 

I've been having this inner battle this week as reality is starting to hit about the time clock running out here in the mission field. I am trying to just finish strong and give it all that I have. I keep reminding myself that I want, NO REGRETS. In one of my personal studies this week I read in Jacob 5..it assured me that all is well. I read 

Jacob 5: 71-72 This is my last time in the vineyard to give my all to my Heavenly Father..

 71 And the Lord of the vineyard said unto them: Go to, and labor in the vineyard, with your might. For behold, this is the last timethat I shall nourish my vineyard; for the end is nigh at hand, and the season speedily cometh; and if ye labor with your might with me ye shall have joy in the fruit which I shall lay up unto myself against the time which will soon come.

 72 And it came to pass that the servants did go and labor with their mights; and the Lord of the vineyard labored also with them; and they did obey the commandments of the Lord of the vineyard in all things.

 I know that as I finish the race strong, He will be pleased with my efforts

75 And it came to pass that when the Lord of the vineyard saw that his fruit was good, and that his vineyard was no more corrupt, he called up his servants, and said unto them: Behold, for this last time have we nourished my vineyard; and thou beholdest that I have done according to my will; and I have preserved the natural fruit, that it is good, even like as it was in the beginning. Andblessed art thou; for because ye have been diligent in laboring with me in my vineyard, and have kept my commandments, and have brought unto me again the natural fruit, that my vineyard is no more corrupted, and the bad is cast away, behold ye shall have joywith me because of the fruit of my vineyard

I love my mission. I will give everything to him. The gospel is true. It has been such a blessing to serve. I pray that we will all continue to seek out opportunities to serve him, no matter where we are, how busy we are.. Our brothers and sisters need us..


Mahal,

Sister Pilkington

The mission life in Santa Cruz!


used to be addicted to coffee...well he gave that up..worried hes addicted to gatorade now? haha well you do what you can..

yepp this beach area just does not get old! 

Twins on exchanges!
:)

Sister Raguilab and I 

Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Last transfer!





View from an investigators house that we were teaching, right outside her window, gorgeous. the ocean never gets old . :)

Our area is beautiful!

Fingerprinting in Manilla!

Sister hausia, Sister Raguilab(my companion), me and Sister Rowley at church! :)

Back with my anak...she is now my STL!

Our batch out to mexican food for lunch in Manila. 

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Transferred to Santa Cruz and am with my twin anak!

Area: Santa Cruz
Companion:

Monday, November 10, 2014

Hello. Short and simple this week. I ended up being transferred. I will be spending my last transfer of my mission here in Santa Cruz, Zambales. Back to the roots ( I was trained in Zambales). I have now worked my way around the entire mission, going from central Zambales, Pampanga, Bataan (furthest south of my mission) and now straight up to the furthest north tip of the mission. It is BEAUTIFUL up here, my area is RIGHT on the beach, LOVE IT. However with the beach comes sand and HEAT. haha can't complain though, it is beautiful here. 

Some fun facts for the week:
-New companion: Sister Raguilab, she has almost been in the mission for 6 months now, and we were in Orani Zone together two transfers ago. She is the NICEST person of my entire life, she offers to help me do my laundry, always cooks, and is just a smiling face. She walks really fast and wants to learn everything she can from me before I leave. The area is not progressing whatsoever, but we take it as a challenge. We are going to walk our little butts off and get this place turned inside out these next six weeks. 
-The twins are reunited!!! My anak (trainee) sister Rowley and I are housemates! Such a blast. We got to start her mission together and end mine together. The branch can't get over how much we look alike. We just smile and nod. 
-Our apartment number is 249..."Called to Serve" in the hymn book, cute. haha
-All four of us sisters: S. Raguilab, me, S. Rowley, and S. Hausia have birthdays in July. Hence, we all get along VERY WELL. 
-S. Rowley is now my STL, what a change in events, we are having a blast and looking forward to exchanges!

I'm having culture shock all over again as the people live in lot humbler circumstances up here in the North. However, they are also very receptive to the gospel. We saw some tender mercies in the work this week and are very excited about a family we found this week. The Mendoza family, Sister Carmen was baptized back when she was a youth with her older sister and mom. For one reason or another she fell away from the church, but she still believes the church to be true and misses it tons. Her husband is an angel, soo nice, however had a little bit of an accident a few months ago and is unable to walk. They are open to us sharing with them and we are hoping with the help of Heavenly Father, lots of prayers, and blessings to get sister returned and active again and get her cute little family baptized. She has three little girls, Haicel Joy, 11; Daniella, 14; and Geremy, 6. 

I am currently in Manila with my batch, we are getting our Visa's all worked out and in place for our trip home..still don't believe it's all actually happening. We ran into a huge batch of missionaries doing the same thing from the Ilo-Ilo mission. It was fun to chat with some other foreigners, always a blast meeting other missionaries. 

The church is STILL true, I still LOVE my mission, and cannot believe it's already the second week of November! Happy birthday shout outs to all you November birthdays, especially to Megs on the 10th, Alex and Elder Swaney on the 11th, and daddy on the 12th! Have a good one, love you all!

Have a great week everybody.

Sister Pilkington